DIFFICULT TIME FOR A GOLDTENTER
Ray from Away is a wonderful and highly valued Goldtent Contributor . You all have benefited from many of his findings . He is an unrelenting truth seeker .
Here is what he is dealing with out on the Island ( PEI)
Hi Gary . You may post this of course without the names above. As you know my wife was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in April and chose not to go through chemo and have quality of life as long as possible. We contacted in home palliative care and nurse visits once a week with assessments and pain medication between our family doctor and a palliative care doctor with the hope of death at home. Finally, as of July 17 I realized it was beyond my ability to care for her and EMS Took her too the hospital which was filled in emergency and all the wards . Two days in emergency and finally a bed in a ward . Yesterday day a nurse came while I was there and said a respiratory tech was coming to do a covid test up in the nose. I asked what for ? ” you need one before transferring to palliative care and there is a chance that she would be moved tomorrow “. I explained everything thing to my wife so she would understand and we both said NO to their bogus test. Three nurses came and went and one told us the palliative care doctor was informed and stated the test was required to be moved. Not once in the last two years and months did we ever allow any test or shot after hundreds of hours of research. And we were right . So she will die in a ward bed likely, with her personal values and soul intact. Her grace and courage overwhelm me. NON OF THIS WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF PEOPLE HAD JUST SAID NO. Ray. Her name is Marilyn
Marilyn’s Courage and YOUR Courage and integrity are overwhelming . Tears here my friend.
It is beyond comprehension why they would NEED a covid test in a situation like this…The Medical “Establishment” has lost their compass.
Keep me posted please . I am not a religious person …but Bless you and Marilyn and your family in these trying times.
God bless you and your wife, Ray. I’m so sad to hear of your troubles. Stay strong. There are many you haven’t even met who are in your corner.
I second Fully’s remarks.
The medical establishment … which governs the conduct of these nurses … is beyond redemption at this point.
My hunch, is that these rules are largely being driven by our litigious society, and perhaps the smart move thinking longer term is to emigrate to someplace where humanity is still uppermost in how people deal with one another when these times arrive, as they will for us all at some point.
Prayers for Marilyn and Ray. Hopefully the medical establishment does not deny her anything else just because she refused to submit to the “great experiment”.
Ray, may your wife, Marilyn, be as comfortable as humanly possible until her journey on Earth is finished. Then she can experience a new peace, without sin or suffering in everlasting heaven.
I’m so sorry Ray. You are both going through the saddest and most difficult times, yet all the medical establishment can think about is upholding their asinine Covid policies. It took a lot for both of you to stay strong to your values until the end. Good for you for trusting your instincts and standing up for your beloved wife.
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We Read his words Gary…just tears for two Brave souls!
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There is nothing more beautiful than finding a soul so strong. My tears and sympathies to you both.
Ray, what the Medical community is clinging to is beyond cruel. You have the respect of all of us here for standing up to these inhumane policies. It truly is a sacrifice no one should have to bear with what we know now.
My thoughts are with you and Marilyn.
This could happen to any of us.
Ray is overwhelmed by this support from friends he has never met .
“I am weeping as I read the comments. My heart is full of love at the kind words. Ray”
Total sadness to read of your news today, thoughts and prayers for your family,
Ray, no words can describe the pain you and your wife have had to endure throughout this misfortune. Only when this occurs can one understand how devastating it can be for both you and your wife. My first wife and the love of my life had Multiple Sclerosis and to watch a person lose their ability to walk, and other bodily functions deteriorate is indescribable. I know when she passed on that she went on to a life without fear, pain and suffering but pure joy. Your wife will pass on and meet up with the many like her an angel of light!